Systems, Part II
In my previous post, Systems, I discussed some thoughts about a type of system that many of us take part in, that is, the traditional church system. I alluded to the fact that my husband and I have discussed other systems as well and I’d like to share my thoughts with you.
The second system that has gotten my wheels turning a bit, is the educational system. This is a difficult one for me to tackle because I feel that I have been raised in the middle of a system that I didn’t even think to question, as I have written about in my post, Identity. But in the past few years, I have had reason to question how this particular system works. (or how it doesn’t work). The main motivation for asking those questions was after realizing that it wasn’t working for my own child. No matter how hard I tried to force him to fit that mold, it wasn’t going to happen. Now, that we have made the change to teaching him apart from the school system, I see so much progress. And He is evolving each day into the man that God has created him to be. It is a very inspiring transformation.
I would have to say that my main problem with how the system operates is that children are not allowed the freedom to follow their natural bent or curiosity. They must fit the “norm” and if they don’t, there must be something seriously wrong. Now on the flip side of the coin, I don’t believe that children in the public schools are expected to be respectful. Yes, it is included in the rules of the classroom posted on the wall, but it does not penetrate their heart. How could it? How can one teacher of 20+ students possibly know and be able to speak to the heart of each child in his/her classroom? (As I write this, I can see the correlation between this system and the previous one I have written about.)
Here’s an interesting perspective on Margaret Spelling’s views on this system:
My main point is that what we are able to see in our child is where his heart is, and frankly, for the last 9 months, it has not been pretty. But we are beginning to see changes, positive changes that if he carries them throughout his life, will make an impact on those who come in contact with him.
Christy, Thank you for sharing the link to the video and your post. I appreciate what you had to say. I am so glad my husband and I have the opportunity to home school our children. It has been a challenge, but one of the most rewarding things we have ever done.
June 4th, 2007 | #
Hi Christy
I can’t help but agree that the Educational systems of this world are sadly lacking…I have a dear brother in the Lord who ascribes to the idea that ALL systems in this world are man made and therefore are fallen…and actually in askance of God and His system…food for thought…:)
June 5th, 2007 | #
Amy Good to see you
Homeschooling has been rewarding for us as well. We feel very fortunate that we are able to homeschool here in our country, especially knowing that isn’t as acceptable in other countries (like Germany). Thanks for your thoughts!
jadasgigi You are right, the educational system is lacking (to put it lightly). Unfortunately, I have seen this up close and personal. I, too, believe that there are many systems that are flawed and I hope to talk about these in future posts. Thanks for stopping by
June 5th, 2007 | #
Hey, Christy, I have been out of pocket for a few days, but hopefully things are settling down a bit. Just wanted to drop in and say, “howdy”!
June 19th, 2007 | #
Amy,
Sorry it took me awhile to respond. Somehow this comment slipped by me!
Thanks for coming by…Hope you and your family are doing well.
June 26th, 2007 | #
I look forward to your next post…..and have enjoyed reading the conversations that take place here….I dropped over from Ron’s blog and was pleasantly filled with God’s blessing ….and will be back.
June 27th, 2007 | #
Thanks Donna, for the words of encouragement. Glad to see you here
June 27th, 2007 | #